Today I planted a garden, in honour of you my little one. I woke up in the morning, not sure how I was going to make it through the day, and then I thought of your tree. I knew I had to re-pot it to help the roots expand and get deeper into soil. We went and bought the most beautiful pot; earth colour, with waves of white, like clouds running through it. It reminded of your softness, your gentle nature, and your connection to the spirit world. I also spent some time buying flowers to surround your tree, to give it colour and richness, and remind me of all the gifts you have given us and continue to give. As I walked through the nursery, I knew this was the perfect day to spend my first Mother's day without you. To be surrounded by green plants, and brilliant flowers, I felt at peace. At home, I lovingly transplanted your beautiful maple tree into its new home, and felt such joy and sadness as I watered it. The leaves are blossoming and almost open. Sassy came by to visit, and joined in the celebration. As I planted the rest of the garden, I asked you to send us a brother or sister. I know you were listening, because I could feel you in the lightness of the air, and in the darkness of the earth. Light and dark. The necessities to stay alive on this earth. The sun is now peeking through the clouds, and shining down on my little potted garden. Your tree will grow tall, little one, and every day I will kiss it, until it is big enough to wrap my arms around. And when we are blessed with another child, we will hug it together as a family. I miss you on this Mother's day and everyday. Thank you for letting me carry you, hold you, and love you. You have opened my heart and taught me the true meaning of what life is about.
With all my love,
Mom
Beautiful Wendy. I just admire you so much.
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